Dear StevanJ,
I think I am too new to understand the politics around the various YouTube channels, but I think keeping an open mind as well as looking at the number of subscribers is a good indication which ones to follow......
In regards to the type of aircraft have looked at the obvious "Big 3" of the Viper/Hornet/Jeffy and the Jeffy looks like my cup of tea, with nice big cockpit screens (eyes are not to good at 50!) but allowing a both fighter and ground attack role. The thought of doing carrier missions I think would be just too much at the outset.
I agree that the fun factor should come before the manual trawl, although I think to get the full immersion the manual has to be used at some point to get the maximum benefit.
Thanks for the advice, fly safe!
Rutty Po Po