Having EXACTLY the same issue you have described, trim having zero effect even though visually it moves in the cockpit & on the aircraft but it doesn't affect the trajectory of flight in the slightest, also playing in VR with a Reverb G2 & an X56. I have tried everything, bound it to an axis then bound it to a hat switch & even tried keyboard input. Nothing. Other than this everything works fine. It surely can't be a VR thing, can it? Strange.