Sorry to bothering here again about the same question.
I'd bought another SSD1322(16pin) to test again. The situation is the same:
1.I use the same pin setting and code from vinc for ESP32 S2 mini and SSD1322.
2.The HW SPI mode just never work (black), the SW SPI mode work but EXTREMELY SLOW. I guess the code and pin is correct but some other thing wrong.
The result this time is same as before. I guess I must have some problem on ESP32 or driver, could anyone successful make it work give me some more detail about using it?like the drive you use, the setting in arduino IDE for board, etc...Thanks in advanced.