Problem solved! I discovered that the good ole reliable mission that I normally benchmarked DCS flight operations, I had to go into the mission editor for the said, mission and make a very important change at the Aircraft carrier F-18C properties! Since the addition of the flight "deck crew aircraft directors", IF YOU HAD SET YOUR AIRCRAFT TO SPAWN AT THE CATIPULT, you needed to simply change that F18C to take off from "PARKING". Then you just needed to follow all the new rules. ***Note*** Before you do any saluting or anything that is the ONLY opportunity to perform a new load out! I need to mention I am talking about single-player mode not multiplayer! I'm not sure how rearming will work in a multiplayer situation!
GOOD TIMES!
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