Game loads really slow and choppy after update

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I never had this problem before this update but now when loading into a MP server (rotorheads) its literally takes almost 5~10min to load in, and once I'm min the cockpit, its ultra low FPS for about another min. Going into F10 map gives me a black screen for another 30sec. Accessing the radio menu freezes for another 30sec. Going into options freezes for another 30sec. What got updated? It seems the game is running worse than before.

 

I am currently on 16gb of ram

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I just found out that running DCS uses 6~4gb of my memory and 0% of my gpu. 

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Ok, I think its not a DCS problem but a server problem. I joined aerobatics online and it loaded in fine. But I did also turn down my graphics settings.