that is a reasonably good suggestion. But I'd have to relabel my panel to show the ON being in the middle and RESET at the top. Not only that, during testing, say pin 6 to OFF, 7 to momentary, when i flip toggle to the mom side, in DCS it goes to OFF like when it's on the latched off side. in DCS it just doesn't go to the center RESET position even though physically I'm willing to let that be at the other end. so we are back to ON OFF in DCS only. physically flipping a 3 way toggle (where actual off is in the center) to either latched off side or mom side in DCS it goes to off, which is wrong. So it looks like a 2 way toggle is a better solution. I won't know when to use the reset anyway lol to have to use left mouse click.
Appreciate the suggestion anyway.
rocketeer's post in CAS panel Yaw, Pitch, Roll toggles skipping center positions was marked as the answer