Do you have the Tomcat? There is an option for assisted startup with Jester. Now, that is what I call easy and accessible. It is practically the startup tutorial, Jester tells you what to do and gives you all the visual cues. It is flawless, I learned how to startup the plane without using autostart.
Do you see the substantial difference between autostart and this? This assisted approach is what keeps realism, while enabling the pilot to learn and eventually perform the tasks on their own. This is what is needed for the sake of accessibility and easing the players into the complex environment of a sim.
Cheats and autostarts do not teach you anything. If you really want to make things easy for players, then think in perspective of educating them better, rather than simplifying things for them. What is needed, is exactly some sort of assisted AAR, which would give me all the visual queues and instructions. Not a button that refuels for you.