Did you ever find a solution for this? I have the exact same behavior - sometimes it takes 4-6 restarts and SteamVR crashes to get into a multiplayer session.... And even then it mostly crashes whenever I need a new plane or sometimes by simply just flying low.... HAPPENS ALL THE TIME....
Similar setup
AMD Ryzen 7 5800/64 GB Ram/Nvidia 3080/HP Reverb G2
Hoping Eagle Dynamics will skip SteamVR for next gen engine
My SteamVR console will say stuff like:
WM_DEVICECHANGE message recieved.
DBT_DEVNODES_CHANGED: A device has been added to or removed from the system.
WM_DEVICECHANGE message recieved.
DBT_DEVNODES_CHANGED: A device has been added to or removed from the system.
0 - entering standby
[System] Unknown Transition from 'SteamVRSystemState_Ready' to 'SteamVRSystemState_Standby'.
0 - leaving standby
[System] Unknown Transition from 'SteamVRSystemState_Standby' to 'SteamVRSystemState_Ready'.
Read chaperone file C:\Users\peter\AppData\Local\Microsoft/Windows/OpenVR\chaperone_info.vrchap
Read chaperone file C:\Users\peter\AppData\Local\Microsoft/Windows/OpenVR\chaperone_info.vrchap
Read chaperone file C:\Users\peter\AppData\Local\Microsoft/Windows/OpenVR\chaperone_info.vrchap
Creating solid play area quad for compositor construct: 1.00 x 1.10
Aborting GetDeltas(Compositor) disjoint! (n=8)
Aborting GetDeltas(Compositor) disjoint! (n=3)
Aborting GetDeltas(CompositorPresent) disjoint! (n=1)
0 - entering standby
[System] Unknown Transition from 'SteamVRSystemState_Ready' to 'SteamVRSystemState_Standby'.
Aborting GetDeltas(Compositor) disjoint! (n=28)
Aborting GetDeltas(CompositorPresent) disjoint! (n=15)
0 - leaving standby
[System] Unknown Transition from 'SteamVRSystemState_Standby' to 'SteamVRSystemState_Ready'.
Aborting GetDeltas(Compositor) disjoint! (n=25)
0 - entering standby
Aborting GetDeltas(CompositorPresent) disjoint! (n=15)
[System] Unknown Transition from 'SteamVRSystemState_Ready' to 'SteamVRSystemState_Standby'.
Aborting GetDeltas(Compositor) disjoint! (n=20)
Aborting GetDeltas(CompositorPresent) disjoint! (n=12)
Aborting GetDeltas(Compositor) disjoint! (n=20)
Aborting GetDeltas(CompositorPresent) disjoint! (n=12)
Thu Dec 30 2021 18:40:40.427 - 0 - leaving standby