Thanks for the input.
I found that the wing ripping off is from the accelerated stall that is induced from initiating too much pitch too quickly. It stalls a wing (usually the left) and if your speed is high enough it rips that wing off.
I remember reading about all the wings falling off p51's in wwii... epidemic (/sarcasm)
As it's the suddeness of the pitch change that leads me to believe it's responsible for ripping my wing off, I lowered the X axis curve for pitch down until this phenomena stopped. That was at 45% on the x axis. For curve I use 15%. I have not torn a wing off since and still have what feels like plenty of low speed control authority.
typically when Im in a fight, I am on the throttle. I dont use wep because Im terrified that I'll nuke the engine. When you're fighting, are you coming off throttle and RPM for manuevering or something?
Also, anytime I get into the vertical and dont have enough speed to carry me over the top (maybe im hanging too long for a shot solution) I nuke the engine immediately. Is there something from an engine management standpoint that I should do in a situation like this to save the engine? Pulling power and rpm's back does not seem to help.
I heard we used 100 130 and 150. (looks like they modelled 100 here?) It's frustrating to be at a 500 hp defecit to your opponents when that doesnt appear to be historically the case. That could be from me being raised in america under the proganda of the indomitable p51. So my view could be biased, it just seems that the germas (with MW 50) have a tremendous advantage.