while flying IL2 I still hear all the talk I had with Jason fom IL2 and others about head positions box limits damages etc ( long ago ) He did listen! , the team listen to advice and now Il2 is quite "superb", while in a dogfight with out my head going through the cockpit help a lot in immersion.. unlike DCS ..DCS been said the same thing for a decade now .. same and same ..
So yes having a sentiment of ED not caring much about things that could make the immersion so much better at it's base. It take them a very longtime to see the benefit of this good things. If we did not really work them to have TR IR and 6DOF you would be flying 3D mix with 2D model right now..
I love DCS there is no doubt.. but it can be much better with not much ..
I am far not an expert on weapons or all electronic onboard .. never was .. I am looking first to see how this aircraft make me feel as immersion.. if the button have a bug to me it's secondary many other much more qualify can report and talk about this.. but sounds , head pilots, flight feeling etc.. I do care a lot because I Experience this in RL.. I personally love all aircraft non fly by wire all the rest is an area were I lack expertise. I rather fly a MiG15 or MiG 19 / 21 than an F14 F16 etc.. but this is only my taste.
I do understand your frustration and it's valid as well as we were.