In real world cockpit, you can't see a plane few miles away, let alone 22 miles away. When in actual cockpit, planes beyond 5-8 miles appear nothing more than a blurred dot. Use radar when flying. When in visual range, look, and you will see the actual plane.
I actually challenge anyone who sat in a cockpit say that they can see another plane beyond six miles on a clear day with no clouds. There is visual range beyond which the human eye can not see.
Learn to use the radar detection system on the jets. Without that knowledge, you are simply inviting a missile in your cockpit.
It is rationally unfair to be asking for ways to visually see planes 22 miles away from you.