Did you find a solution to this problem? It's driving me nuts. :D
Does anyone know how to rearm/refuel on a carrier or ship, too. I've tried the exact same method as I do when on an airfield, coms, door...etc. Still nothing. I've even integrated the ship/carrier into the waypoint system as a landing point, in case that had something to do with it. Both the ship and shark are set as Russian, too.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.