No help here, just someone in a very similar boat. I've reinstalled graphics drivers with DDU in safe mode, ensured all updates are current, completely reinstalled DCS on a brand-new drive, wiped my Saved Games DCS folder, can either fly for a <30 minutes online, or it'll crash on mission load. Every crash has a similar error to yours, a random DLL and #C0000005 ACCESS_VIOLATION.
Mine usually is edCore.Dll or edObjects.dll on both single and multi-thread. It has been happening since right before the release of MT, but it seems to be getting worse with each OB patch. Doesn't matter which aircraft I'm flying or server. I cannot get it to happen in Single Player though.