You can actually give orders to an AI from either seat in the F-14. It's just so that the RIO AI is much more sophisticated than the pilot AI. There's a lot you can do from the gunner seat including flying the thing. In the Huey, you can give some relatively simple flying commands when manning a weapon station yourself. In the Gazelle, you can make an AI pilot hold a hover but still control the collective yourself to control a pop-up. I know they are working on a sophisticated AI for the gunner. At least they showed us so for the Hind. I don't know if anything is in the works for the pilot.