We all just need to relax and take a deep breath.
Think for a moment, how far flight simulators have come, and be thankful for the time the developers spend on every little detail in our niche market sim world.
We are not spending millions of dollars on state of the art military simulators. We are spending beer money on entertainment software for our overgrown calculators.
Of course I want the sim to be as realistic as possible, but I am also realistic in my expectations of what can be achieved. If I had the money, I would not buy a state of the art, top dollar, full motion simulator. I would go buy a real helicopter.
I have flown 2 pc products that are very close to my limited experience in real helicopters, DCS:Huey and Dreamfoil Creations R-22 for Xplane 10. Are they perfect? No. Can they be improved? Yes, but they are both light years beyond my first flight sim experiences in the early 90's.
So....take a deep breath, and continue to be critical, yet supportive.