Thank you.
But after trying 50 times the same approach, no, I wasn't going to check if my gear down indicator was turned on. Anyway, experience in-game tells me the gear is down and locked 100% of the times I hear the mechanism. :)
IRL, USAF fighter pilots also lower the gear first. Once they confirm three greens, they drop flaps. They then check the flaps have not extended asymmetrically and if all is OK, consider the plane ready for landing.
Anyway, my initial question was more about the break maneuver itself, especially speed, altitude, spacing between flights, when to initiate break and final, aim point, etc.