You will feel when u dont have to use the stick. If the nose is starting to pitch up while you roll then u use too much stick and to less rudder.
Ist all a combination of stick and rudder. I highly recommend a stick Extension.
And yes , it is possible to outturn a f16 ore a f18. also m2000c is possible.
but dont go into a rolling scissor with the 18. in this case you will end up with her in your 6.