Not counting the Space Shuttle game for the Atari 2600, Jet is what I first flew. It was on the computer at my AFROTC det.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jet_(video_game)
I think I owned everything that came out in the 90s. Falcon 3 got a lot of miles out of me.
My friend and I played a lot of "Flight of the Intruder" back in the day. One of us flew, the other was working DIANE to do the bombing. Back then, AOA wasn't really modeled well. I could split S from 5,000' right onto a trap on the carrier, which always upset my friend.
DCS is probably my favorite. It's got the best "feel" of flight I've ever experienced.
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