I still don't know, if this is a joke or not. Returning and refunding? Nobody will give You money back, because You don't know, how to fly this thing. I understand Your frustration, but I think it's the first phase of the learning curve. :-)
The manual is the most important thing here. And in 99% there is a problem between the chair and the keyboard.
I'm very confused about this thread. :huh:
I don't want to be rude or something, but if You want to fly some realistic simulators, especially helicopters, be sure, there are much more creepy things awaiting You than Blackshark. :thumbup:
Just be patient and You will love it soon. Give it a chance, duuuuude! :)
Sorry, I don't have any particular advise, but the manual is really very important here.