I think it's not a bad basic idea, surely seeing the body of the pilot is more immersive (especially with VR) and it's also pretty as a thing, but not essential, moreover some prefer not to see it, i'm for both. I believe that in the end seeing a female face in the pilot's model or that of a black man is a very personal matter, the same thing for the voice. From my point of view we must not make it a question of respect or struggle between the sexes. Personally, apart from DCS, among my favorite games there are those with female characters, and i must say that i can immerse myself in the character and i would not change anything.
So ultimately, the sex of the character has nothing to do with the passion for flying and only serves a personal immersion in the sim and therefore is not a priority. However I support the idea, just don't make this sim decorated with flowers (even if i like flowers:lol:).