personally I don't find any need for an avatar at all, no such disconnects for me, all of that would matter more come the day we have holodecks, but for now VR is in the realms of creating a new dimension to existing technology, we have all been coping just fine with using sims on monitors without avatars and enjoying ourselves, I find it odd that we now have a capability to increase the sense of presence and people are already finding faults as if we are taking backward steps, Ok some people feel disembodied.....that's testament to the power of the immersion and presence that VR is offering us, for me it's an easy trick to get over the invisible body.