Great post..( I have same issues quest 3 )  it seems to Sorta launce SOMETIMES.. & sometimes it dosent...am sure it is me.
 
	So, i gather Launch #1- Meta quest link ...then plug?turn googles on?   then launch DCS ( making sure in VR mode?  )  the new dcs launcher allows decktop OR VR headset launch now...do i STILL need to go into the running game and select the "Enable vr headset" tic mark in the Launched DCS options?.
 
	i will use the link cable ( shows it works fine )   when i have used it b4  i felt the resolution sucked...and felt pushed up too far in the seat...perhaps it is my rig ?? that has the occasional stuttering too. 
 
	Device name    DESKTOP-i7 
	Processor    Intel(R) Core(TM) i7-9700K CPU @ 3.60GHz   3.60 GHz 
	Installed RAM    96.0 GB (63.9 GB usable) 
	Device ID   XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX 
	Product ID    XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX 
	System type    64-bit operating system, x64-based processor 
	Pen and touch    No pen or touch input is available for this display
 
	 GPU - GIGABYTE GeForce RTX 2080 Ti WINDFORCE OC 11G Video Card, GV-N208TWF3OC-11GC 
	Memory Size: 11GB 
	Cooler: WINDFORCE 3X
 
	  Any help or tips getting mine to run like it SHOULD  appreciated