No problem buddy, I think they run scripts so it's likely no one banned you on purpose because of you're name anyway. I do think people deserve a second chance but that's my just opinion. I've made some mistakes on servers when I was younger not DCS but other games that were not great.
The only thing that gets me at times is a'lot of servers are passworded sometimes more than are not. I wont get into that tho as it has been debated to death in another thread, Sorry for coming off topic diehard.
I got the lite version of Arma 3 a'lot was promised and not some much has been put in so far so I'll wait on buying the full version.