Aircrew Interviews is a good channel. Lots of Tomcat and twin seat stuff.
Also Fighter Pilot Podcast and ( no kidding ) PeninsulaSrs have applicable talks.
You may end up having to watch hours of videos for tens of minutes of relevant information. I dunno about you, but I'm interested in fighter jets, so it's not all that much of a chore :D
One thing you probably won't get is a highly definitive answer in one place.