Its all silly at times: people firing 10 120s at you on GS, people insisting on turning off the radar as you approach the tanker, 8 v 8 BFM on Df server, desync, Jester, most pilots on final!
Comps are very different from the chaos of GS! I've only been doing comps a year or so, and despite all the bugs, 14/54 issues and general 14 'hate', its been great fun flying with/against some very smart, really great guys/gals; obviously its not for everyone, no better or worse than heavy mil-sim'ers or SP players. It also brings new players to the hobby.
PS> This isn't war ... not even 2%.