F14B Fly by wire
The horizontal tails pivot around the aerodynamic center so theoretically it takes the same force to move them at any speed. And the roll spoilers are technically FBW so none of their forces reach the stick, either.
That said, jet fighters with non-FBW controls tend to have a bob weight that increases stick force with increase in G rather than speed. With that in place it should be very difficult to over stress the plane with a smooth pull. I’m curious, though, if a sudden yank defeats the system because you’re moving the stick faster than G onset...