I’m sure y’all fiddling with AP/ATC, laying tarot cards and aligning the stars would nail AAR in real (manual) mode first time if you set curves to 20 and ONLY focus on the tankers wing, that should be your ONLY reference. Disregard the basket, your brain will take care of that. 99% of the pilots change focus from the wing to the basket when they’re close (10-5 ft), and you WILL oscillate like crazy when you do.