I personally think the 104th have got it right. There is a happy medium and the 104th are right on the money. You can jump on the server for a quick sortie or two or spend hours on there and not get bored. They are no overly strict and there are only a couple of simple rules to follow. And if you want to play something a little more hardcore then you can jump on Blueflag or open conflict. Or if you are like me i like to sometimes spend a few hours just doing touch and goes in various aircraft i will jump onto the VA server. There are plenty of servers out there but i seemed to spend most of my time on 104th so they must be doing something right.