I think Tek's main points got lost in there somewhere :lol:
There is an aspect of realism that has to do with balance. Not the kind of balance to dumb something down, or boost something up in order to get a 50/50 scenario, but a balance of modeling both side to similar extent.
Let's use the ill-phrased terminology as an example*; Say you model an aircraft to 75% of its RL capability and give the other side 25% of its RL capability. This will give the "75%" aircraft an advantage over the "25%" one. Wheres IRL, both sides might be more equally match (not 50/50 though). To phrase it differently, it's not realistic for the superior aircraft to face under modeled aircraft.
Tek's second point is that in MP, because of AFM (and especially Russian missiles being a lot worse than in FC2), behavior of virtual pilots do not reflect behavior of RL pilots. F-15s gets too comfortable with LWs. On top of that the seeker of the 120/77 are quite wild when it comes to maddoging. This is a cause for frustration, but as you said, missiles are being worked on.
* Note that I'm not referring to any FC aircraft here.
PS. Since this is a wishlist forum; I want a TTI timer on my HUD and burning aircraft to be less lethal (FCS systems turned off?)