I actually think scaling could be a moderate halfway solution. It doesn't have to be ridiculous, but a scaling bump 1.2x wouldn't be that noticeable as far as how awkward aircraft would look, but could provide far better visibility at the same time.
If you are recalling the model enlargement used in DCS a while back, yeah, especially at the large setting, it looks pretty bad (and blurry). But giving it a very slight bump could make a world of a difference in spotting, without making the aircraft look ridiculous or nasty. [emoji2371]
I have changed sides on this now though, and do think that dots (done right) would be a better solution than scaling, in the long [distance] run