Not sure if I undertand well, but the cursor (I use the free movement, not center dot) bothers me in VR too, so I set Alt-C command in my HOTAS to hide/show the cursor. So the cursor is there when I need it, and not when I don’t.
If you mean that there is a lack of precision with the center dot cursor, use the free mouse (activate in VR settings). As I said, it works better for me.