I was playing devils advocate a bit and I agree with you.
The pilot model doesn't matter to me but I understand it might to others. What I would like is more variation in player, ATC, AWACS, flight and JTAC in general - more male and female voices please.
For clarity, I have absolutely no problem with woman in DCS, whether that be models or audio, but when people ask for features in the name of diversity instead of in the name of "this would make the game better" people (me) can't possibly take the suggestion seriously.
I hope that's an eye opener for the people who cried bigot at anyone who disagreed with the OP.