Actually i think the higher numbers are for higher weights off a carrier . Are you starting cold ? You'll want to press your FCS reset and takeoff trim buttons before takeoff . Bit page should show 12 on horiz stabs and 30 on verticals .The nose does rotate on it's own , but you won't break ground until 150-ish depending on load . I often fly with full internal fuel , 2 mk82's 2 sidewinders , a couple of amramms , a targeting pod and 4 mavs , and the aircraft flies itself off nicely . Flaps up at +100 feet and gear up before 250 knots . You should NOT have to touch the pitch trim until landing .