Core mods folder/F-14/liveries/F-14B or F-14A (-195GR?)Make sure you put correct skin for F-14B into that livery sub folder, and correct skins for the F-14A195GRin that livery sub folder.
Can’t help you with first part. But for TOO release I designate with TPOD, then long press waypoint increment button for more than .8 seconds and then position the aircraft and get correct symbology in the HUD for release.